"Men are visual," Donaldson says, "So if you don't appeal to their sense of beauty, they will not write to you." He recommends one or two photos minimum but never more than four.
Start by finding the dating site that's right for you and your budget.
Then, do your research; think about what you are looking for, and find out how to attract that kind of person.
Aside from the checklist you really should have a few paragraphs describing yourself and your interests outside of D/s.
Funnily enough most dominant women are looking for individuals.
Meanwhile, a pumpkin spice latte costs around $4.50, compared to $8 or more for a glass of wine.