“These women may have anger towards men and are getting back at them by stringing them along,” she says.
More likely, though, she says the incessant emailing and excuses likely indicate having intimacy issues.
Starting with a coffee date also gives you less time to get anxious or self-conscious because there’s less build up.
Financially, it’s also a good idea because it allows you to meet lots of matches without splashing out on expensive dates. Some people are anxious to know all they can about someone before meeting them.
Most people choose to wait until there are enough signs that the other person is interested in them before they suggest meeting up because this reduces the chance of rejection.